Unstick Stupid!

Seriously sista...If you are 19 years old in a relationship with a 29 year old man with three kids that doesn't approve of you doing things that 19 year olds do, and cannot figure out for yourself what you need to do to fix your situation, then you need more help than that of what Steve Harvey can advise. I must applaude and address the efforts of Steve Harvey. He has been coined as a guru on the male mentallity, and in an effort to make things better for us women he has decided to write a book, an advice column, and promote an online dating site. Well, thank you, Steve Harvey. Thank you for showing and telling women how to "unstick their stupid." I guess this is another thing that we women can give a man credit for. Instead of us realizing that when we trip over our own relationship mess that we need to clean it up ourselves, we can give all the credit for our relationship success (when or if it happens) to Steve Harvey. This is not a dis on Steve Harvey, but simply something for us as women to stop and think about. Steve can tell you what a man is thinking, and how he will use the information that results from his thinking process from the male perspective. However, only a women that knows you and what you have been through can tell you how to use the information that results from those bad decisions that you have made from a female perspective. That women is YOU! Seriously sistas, haven't we allowed ourselves to depend on the male perspective for long enough? When will we begin to think for ourselves? We do not need another man to tell us what we already know in our heart is wrong. We have all made bad choices. It is up to us to decide that we will make better choices by using our own God given sound mind and its ability to think and reason. Seriously sista...catch a clue...think it through...and do what is best for you!